you could try Redline fluid in the gearbox first
a lot of people say their problems went away with it. Id try that first then explore deeper. Did you notice a change in clutch behavior lately?
Might want to have the battery tested so you dont end up stranded somewhere, if it checks out good then you have a drain somewhere, could be a diode in the alternator or the regulator could be acting up.
95 E34 530I V2.37
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