Jeff,
It's an interesting point. Not all BMW automatic transmissions are Getrag units. Many are ZF's. I spoke to Mike Martin about this at length at one time and he supported your view and wouldn't do it. But he also noted it really depends on the condition of the unit and its mileage, and as I understand it, the driving conditions of the car.
Another alternative, and one I do have experience in, is to change the fluid every 15,000 miles but not flush the unit. That is, you are changing only the ATF in the transmission but not any of the fluid capured in the torque converter. Have been doing this for the last 100,000 kms without a problem.
It has been explained to me that there is enough new fluid going into the unit to refresh the ATF that's there, but not enough to clean out all the residual gunk and therefore potentially create a problem.
Mine is a 5 Speed ZF adaptive unit and can be used as a manual without problem.
As I noted before, its important to see what unit is in the car. I suspect that he does have a Getrag.
Geoff
Sydney, Australia
'94 525iA