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e30 vs e36 control arm - e30tech.com Forums
E30 control arm vs. E36 M3 control arm question - BMW M3 Forum.com (E30 M3 | E36 M3 | E46 M3 | E92 M3 | F80/X)
96-99 M3's have different geometry, but all other e36 are the same.
will E36 front control arms fit E30? answers asap plz - Bimmerforums - The Ultimate BMW Forum
e36 M3 Control Arms Compatible to e30 Control Arms - Bimmerforums - The Ultimate BMW Forum
E30 Lower Control Arms / Balljoints into E36
$100 e36 m3 Control Arm Solution
Parts Needed:
1. Used '96+ e36 m3 control arms. These can be had for free from your local BMW stealeship's scrap bin.
2. e30 Ball Joints. All four cost well under $100, even for Lemforder brand.
Affordable e36 m3 Control Arms DIY - R3VLimited Forums
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