I am pretty sure I have no clue what your asking but I'll give her a whirl...
#12 goes into #13
#12 should sit on the top of the piston rod on a small ledge, don't push it farther.
#2 sandwiches #12 to the top of the piston rod.
#12 slips into #13, just hangs out as a splash guard around the shock.
The inward lugs are just to make it sturdier.
Once you tighten the nut down it will compress #12 so that there will be no gap.
No clue what the aerosol cap lid is all about.
95 E34 530I V2.37
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