So, update report!
I did sell the E34... And I miss it but probably not for the reasons anyone expects. I miss the awesome visibility and safe feeling I had in the drivers seat. I miss the character (?) that the car had. Now, after driving the 2007 E60 for the better part of year (and about 7K miles) I bought a '07 328xi. I know, I went to the dark side but damn this 328 car is fun! It handles very well and I smile each and every time I get it in (6 speed manual). It seems to be about the same cabin size as my E34, it just sits much lower. I figure I better do this while I still can - am not getting any younger (50).
Oh yes, anyone getting an E60 5 - good luck with using the Idrive to adjust your vent temp - that is such a crap solution. It really is something I looked for in the 3. My wife is getting the E60 - it is a gorgeous car, I got an awesome deal and it drives like a dream, but it is not the car for me.
Scott
PS the E60 is so wide it is almost uncomfortable, it feels wider than my wife's Odyssey.
1995 BMW 525i w/139K miles, EAT Chip - (Gone)
07 525i 22K, 07 328xi (41K)
1982 Mazda RX-7 w/147K miles (Back again!)