on the e32/34 m30 there is no head pipe gasket, at least none that i've ever seen on the several dozen cars i've worked on/scrapped, the only problem i've ever seen has been the studs twisting off, generally if the cup shaped end of the head pipe is not out of round and the springs are inplace under the nuts it's sealed. it's basicly a ball and socket joint, i tighten the nuts down till the coils of the springs start to bind
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