Ok so I finaly gave up on my e34 seems no one could figure out the problem and since it's its springtime and its running fine again I traded her in...(got an e39) guess Im a glutton 4 punishment but maybe I'll have better luck the second time around with a bimmer and at least Ill enjoy the road to being Broke.. ...for now the new bimmer is beautiful and a very smooth ride so I will enjoy it for the meantime ...hopfuly like s the winter more than the previous one....anyways thanks to those who tried to help ...L8r...