there aint no freakin rules here and feel free to post away. From the sound of it and with what your indy said I'm thinking there is oil in the plug area shorting out the spark. They are 100% correct that it can fry the coils AND the DME!!! First thing you should do is try to soak as much of the oil out with rags and a screwdriver, then remove the plugs and clean up all the rest of the oil, then change the gasket...or all at the same time. A reboot of the computer wont hurt a thing after you do the above. The actual work to do this is pretty easy so you should be able to finish that up in a couple hours even if you dont have a clue what your doing. Remember were here for you most of the time since it's a global forum.
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