Sorry to hear about your "sweetheart"....to answer your question, you can install the low beam ellipsoids into your existing buckets. You can use a heat gun to soften the little bastard of an attaching grommet some engineer dreamed up, so they can be pulled free of the bucket, or you can break them and buy new ones. The headlights are about $95 each from BMA, you won't find them any cheaper. New adjusters and the attaching plastic grommets should be replaced as the old ones will be brittle and difficult to work with unless you are patient. It would also be a good time to do the 9005 bulb conversion while everything is apart.
Good luck with your car Robin, I'm sure they will fix everything to your satisfaction. The important thing is that you are ok... Post if you need a hand with the ellipsoid conversion.
Jr