Well, I have the Koni/Eibach combo on my car, but it's a 535i Touring, which changes things a bit in terms of weight distribution compared to a 540 sedan.
I can relate 100% on your comments about the front. I've done the same thing, started with 1 and 1/2, ranged from 2 turns in from soft, to 1/2 turn in currently in 'soft commuter' mode. 1/2 turn IMO is right on the edge of not being enough rebound dampening to keep up with the spring rate.
I also have 1 and 1/2 turns in from soft in the rear. On the Touring, this has been
OK, but it has bottomed out with 2 heavy rear passengers when driving (very) hard over rough terrain. I wish it was easier to adjust so that I could put in an extra turn or so when I have big passengers or a heavy load...guess that LAD I tossed out had a purpose after all, eh?

The ride quality actually gets
much better with passengers aboard. This leads me to believe that I have a bit
too much compression damping for the spring rates, especially in the rear, when I'm not carrying a load.
One important note: I'm pretty sure the Koni Yellows adjust rebound and compression simultaineously, don't they? I didn't think the Yellows were a rebound-only adjustment. If I'm all wet, let me know.