aaaaaactually ...... revving in Park or Neutral won't have any effect on the trans as the only thing spinning is the gearbox input shaft, no load on the gears at all (Park locks the output shaft). You need to load the drive train, so with the trans in Drive but foot firmly on the foot brake and handbrake on, give the throttle a few sharp blips - no Italian tune-up style hit-the-rev-limiter mashing of the foot to the firewall - and have your friend (who shall be standing beside, not in front, of the car) watch for excessive movement in the engine ..... sheesh, you guys!
June 88 535iA, 173,000 km; Sep 00 735i 170,000 km