2 and 1 are related. they are both connected to the IHKR AC control box under the dash. mine is fried, and as such doesnt let either the window heater or air con work.
the reason its fried is the PO never changed the cabin air filter, and there was massive contamination in that area. even the wiring harness to the box had started to corrode.
the relay is the yellow diode relay i believe, you can borrow the one from the extra relay box in the engine bay to see if its just the relay thats dead for the window heater.
Alusil, Dinan DME | ITG Air Filter | Eibach/Bilstein HD | 26/20 Swaybars | Iridium plugs | Depo/ProLumen HID | Optima batt. | no AC | Stoptech brake lines, Frozen rotors, brass bushings, Superblue