Summitt racing should have what you need. Or, any local hot rod shop that caters to engine builders/drag racers should have a good warchest of fuel connectors.
Alex - re your question, I'll try to post a pic of my hardmounted fuel gauge setup.
It's very simple - a $20 FP gauge from summit, a T off the high pressure line just below the intake manifold, and a scavanged IVC holder that's been repurposed to mount the gauge.
Jeff
Bellevue WA
90 535iM - not much stock remains. 3.7 liters, ported head, cammed, 3.73 diffy, M5 brakes, MAFed, yadda yadda yadda
86 Porsche 951 - Track Toy