Who mods the mods is an important point. I know you don't feel powerful Jeff, but many others would be percieving you as such. I'm all for some fun, but that comment (on the surface) sure reads to me as an Over The Top (OTT) reaction to Wingman's post. However I take it with a pinch of salt as I probably don't get your context in which you say it. On the other hand, I can see he too might be over the top from your POVOriginally Posted by 632 Regal
HOWEVER, this illustrates kinda what I am talking about; ie , if the barb was directed at a lesser person he might seek to clarify it (perhaps in a similarly misunderstandable way) and before you know it there goes a big spat (with people 'defending their reputations'); one we could all do without.
Gayle is dead right. She is considering many people's point of view and taking the time to explain it for the rest of us. We really need to prevent the verbal stoushes, they are ugly to newbies and make the place seem like it is run by the thugs- so much of it is so easily out of context to those who do not know the personalities or history involved.
On an International forum that is well on its way to being a truly great community, there needs to be an air of sensitivity. Many online communities have been taken to the cleaners by people (and businesses) that have been denigrated and/or defamed. Once things get bigger this sort of thing easily becomes a problem. Often just cultrural misunderstandings can make a few words seem unreasonable when they are read out of the real context in whic the member wrote them. There is also a risk issue for the forum itself but I don't think we are quite there (big enough) yet. However a set of rules seems good preparation.
Most forums have teh rules setup before the mods as I said earlier, I still can't work out why it is not this way here, except that regulation requires effort and risks pissing some people off. We might enjoy the banter, fun and jokes as well as our various common interests, but I know that having mods without rules leaves the back door open and risks dictator sports starting (even if mod powers are not real and are simply percieved).
btw, thanks for the thoughts- I agree my rules are too strict for us now. They are just the sorts of things I am used and wanted to put them up for consideration here.