This is not good, I have openned up the whole under dash of the car and if your description is good, I do not have the relay among all of the relay that is under the dash. What is worst is if we are on the same page, there is only one relay on the unit that is attached on the side of the wall (above the speaker) and the color is orange. It is also facing up. There are other relays which are tied to the steering column. I'm really confused. Bad thing is I was looking at the color of the wires that comes from power window switch are solod colors and seems like none of them are going to the harness. Help, help help, help!!!!!