I never run my '89 325iC through the car wash, but, it would leak for sure! Still, I'm not sure I'd do it, I like hand cleaning those convertibles. Perhaps the tops on the newer ones are more durable and seal better. I also believe hers would be insulated, so that might help. Maybe the brushless car washes would be acceptable. There also might be recommendations in her owner's manual and I guess you could call a BMW dealer to see what they recommend.