On #1 - I've got the same issue. I'm pretty sure it's the dust shield on mine. It got bent WAAY out of shape when I replaced my front suspension....twice (as well)...and now it bangs into the rotor whenever I hit a bump. Kind of annoying, but even more of a pain to fix because it requires pulling the bearing to deal with it.
At 117k and New York potholes, the car probably needs front bearings anyway -- I bet it's causing #3. Be sure to check the sway bar link for play (suspension should be loaded when you do this) -- could be an easy fix to the problem
on #2 -- has the fluid in the trans ever been changed? If it's the lifetime stuff (I can never remember which ones have what), they say it needs to be done ~ 60 or 70 k.
Check the wheel bearings by jacking the front of the car up, grabbing hold of the spring in one hand and rotating the wheel with the other -- shouldn't be able to "feel" the movement...or perhaps grinding, in this case.
I'm always a proponent of doing the work myself. Most mechanics are worthless, especially if you give them a "ferrrin" car. Both of my past two dealership visits (one for Fritz, one for the van) were shitty -- they didn't torque all of the bellhousing bolts on my trans when they replaced it under warranty; the chrysler "5 star" stealer left a freakin' RAG on top of one of the exhaust manifolds when the van was over there. That's attention to detail.
best, whit