yea, but would it make sense that its the main relay when the last two times it started IT DID fire up but it took forever to turn over (which i think might have something to do with the reason its not running). I would think the main relay would just all together die and one day it would just refuse to start. Or is it possible that the main relay slowly dies hence the last two very long starts which it has never done before in the 18 months I have had the car.
If it is the main relay is there anyway to test it aside from buying a new one?