This doesnt really sound too healthy. Unfortunatley these cars are rendered useless once in an accident not because they cant be fixed but because of the costs involved to repair them, even if you do the repairs yourself. Time to call the insurance company and haggle for the highest payoff you can get by documenting how pristene the car was prior to the accident. Take that money and find a replacement. You may be able to but the car back from the insurance company and sell parts for more money.
Sorry for your loss man.
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